i requested eugene to bring me to JB today coz i wanted
to get some DVDs and also i miss lok lok (and eugene)
terribly.
He came to pick me up and on our way to JB,
some woman called AGAIN. She was most probably asking him where he is,
what he is doing etc and he told her he was on his way to JB etc. I kept
quiet until he began to ask her what she was doing and she most
probably said she was eating and he replied, "
never save some for me
".
i just went mad at that. After the xmas incident,
he was the one who said he will stop flirting with anyone including me
and he took much pride in enforcing it on me! I'm pretty sure he didnt
stop flirting with anyone else but me and what he just did was simply
just shoving what's been mentally mind fxxking me right in my face. and i
totally feel like i'm being penalised and 'punished' for 'catching' him
flirting on xmas eve.
anger got the better of me
and i lost it again. I shouted and went "
can you please not flirt when i am in your
car! "
they continued talking,
CHATTING.
This man totally has no
consideration for my feelings or any respect for me. And yes, i do think
that it was very rude of me to do that. I'm not even the gf, who am i
to determine if he can flirt or not. But the thing is, he was the one
who said he would stop flirting. I didnt request this, he was the one
who came up with it so why is he going against his words?
after he got off the fone, i told him to drop me off
anywhere and im not going ahead with the JB trip. I questioned and ask
him who that is and he said its a female FRIEND of his from Vietnam (my
eugene is so multi-national! he has Msia, Thai, Indonesia, Vietnam and so
many others dat i probably do not know yet!). He tried to explain to me
that he was just disturbing her and he would haf done it even if it was a
guy friend. That was so not the point and i argued that he was speaking
to her like he wld speak to me and he tried to push his arguement that
he would haf asked me to feed him if it was me - and he said it in a
as-a-matter-of-fact-ly! and as we 'argued', he said i was driving him
crazy and my feeling is equally mutual!
and he didnt
stop his car and drove all the way up to JB, not even stopping to let me
withdraw cash or exchange the currency.
i realised
something today. that is, when they run out of white cards, you actually
don't have to fill in the white card. den why make us fill it in in the
first place?
anyway, at the custom, his car got hit
by some guy. coincidentally, another msian's car got hit by the same guy
and den after we left the customs, both the msian car and us gave
chase. damn exciting!
when they were talking, he
asked me to stay in the car and surprisingly, the person took quite a
long time to negotiate with the msian but agreed to repair eugene's car
immediately.
and the good thing about eugene was that
even in such situations, he didnt appear like his mood was affected
(either dat or he acted really well). I do know of some guys who would
probably start throwing his temper but eugene was totally cool.
we first went to Holiday Inn. We kinda missed the
turn like twice so we kinda detoured twice but he still patiently sent
me there and paid for all my purchases.
we also went
tidbits shopping and he bought lotsa tidbits for his colleagues - which
i saw this as a good point. as for me, he got me a strawberry chewing
gum!
after holiday inn, we went to wash his car. the
lok lok car was nowhere in sight and he was hungry so we went to eat at
some coffee shop first.
i didnt eat coz i wanted to
save my stomach for lok lok!
his nasi lemak...
it
was quite good!
after eating, we went to pick up
the car and he drove me to look for lok lok. at one point when he asked
me.. "
passport take
already? " .. i thot we were going back and i replied.. "
huh.. not going to eat lok lok
meh " and he looked at me, luffed and repeated wat i said..
"
huh.. not going to eat lok
lok meh? " hee hee.. but we did, he drove me to this other
area where we spotted 2 lok lok cars but there was no parking so we
drove around awhile.
took a toilet break and i was
cam whoring...
and
finally lok lok!
initially
he walked around and saw there were no mushrooms which i liked and he
asked me.. "
no mushrooms, u
want to change to the other one? " .. which the other one
is actually another driving distance away and he has actually already
parked his car at some $2 valet parking place so i told him its ok we'll
just stick to this. i know it may seem like its a very small action but
considering its my eugene, its very sweet and thoughtful
already.
and eventually we realised they did haf
mushrooms!
so
yummy, so happy!
love
the broccoli, mushroom and long beans!
on
our way back, suddenly out of the blue he asked me why i suddenly did
wat i did earlier and he told me very nicely that that was very rude. i
told him i agree totally - and im quite upset i lost control and behaved
that way. but i told him he was also very rude to be flirting in front
of me.
I asked him whether his other women felt
anything about him having other women or am i the only one who is
bothered. He said im the only one who behaves bothered and i seriously
cannot why! He said probably they feel dat they are in my position to
bother. so i asked him.. "
so
are u saying i should be like them? " and he replied.. "
no, you are different from
them " (so isnt he suggesting that i am different and i DO
have the authority to be bothered, upset and some control over his
philandering ways? )
he sent me home and actually
i've thot that the main reason why he agreed on this trip is because he
wants to get his company stamp from me. But when he sent me home, he was
rushing to go back again and will get it from me tml. he again refused to see me upstairs.
when we got home, he smsed me n told me to drink
more water coz the food we took earlier has a lot of MSG.
